An Evening with Clare Dalton: Truths, Beliefs, and Realities
Apr
14
6:30 PM18:30

An Evening with Clare Dalton: Truths, Beliefs, and Realities

A major cause of tension in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and LGBTQ space is due to inconsistencies we all have about what we hold as truth, what we believe, and what we experience as reality. Let’s lean into this tension together and see where we can create more harmony and peace. 

Clare Dalton (she/her) is passionate about creating a safe space for everyone at the intersection of LGBTQIA+ and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. When she came out as gay in 2021, Clare worked for the next two years to navigate her faith and her orientation within her career with Seminary and Institutes to show her colleagues, her students, and local families that when Christ told everyone to, “Come, follow me,” He really meant it. 

She has been a keynote speaker at the 2022 Arizona LDS LGBT (ALL) conference and a featured guest on the Listen, Learn & Love podcast with Richard Ostler, and the Questions from the Closet podcast with Ben Schilaty and Charlie Bird. Clare is on the advisory board with Gather and was a speaker, presenter, and moderator at the first Gather Conference in 2023. 

Since leaving her career with Seminaries & Institutes, she has been instrumental in creating the Gatherings curriculum to foster scripture-based LGBTQIA+ conversations and hosts a monthly Instagram Live on @gatherconf 

In April 2024, she will be on the executive committee to present the first regional Gather Conference outside of Utah in Mesa, AZ. 

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A Second Evening with Bob Rees: Opening Our Hearts, Homes, and Chapels to Our LGBTQ+ Members
Mar
24
6:30 PM18:30

A Second Evening with Bob Rees: Opening Our Hearts, Homes, and Chapels to Our LGBTQ+ Members

  • 98 Moulton Drive Atherton, CA, 94027 United States (map)
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Please note the date change to March 24

In Part 1 of this two-part Hearth, Bob shared a powerful description of his experience growing up in a homophobic and transphobic culture and being challenged by his Christian discipleship to undergo a sea-change to become an ardent Ally. In the follow-up fireside coming up on March 10, Bob will share his observations about how Latter-day Saints can participate in “the restoration of all things” by being open and receptive to forging a better, more practical, and more spiritual way forward in opening their hearts, homes and congregations to their LGBTQ brothers and sisters and all others who seek fellowship with us. Bob is a religious scholar and a devoted LGBTQ+ ally who has been learning from and ministering to LGBTQ Latter-day Saints for half a century. 

Until his recent retirement, Bob was Visiting Professor and Director of Mormon Studies at Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley. He is the co-founder and Vice-President of the Bountiful Children’s Foundation, and co-founder and president of FastForward for the Planet, a new non-profit initiative designed to unify the faiths of the world in addressing climate change and earth stewardship.

Bob has published widely on Mormon and Religious Studies. His most recent publications are A New Witness to the World: Reading and Re-reading the Book of Mormon (2020) and Why I Stay2: The Challenge of Discipleship for Contemporary Latter-day Saints (2021).

Bob has served as a bishop, member of the Baltic States mission Presidency, high councilor and Institute Teacher, currently he and his wife, Gloria, are engaged in interfaith work in Marin County. He can be reached at bobrees2@gmail.com.

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An Evening with Bob Rees: Opening Our Hearts, Homes, and Chapels to Our LGBTQ+ Members
Feb
18
6:30 PM18:30

An Evening with Bob Rees: Opening Our Hearts, Homes, and Chapels to Our LGBTQ+ Members

Bob is a religious scholar and a devoted LGBTQ+ ally. Until his recent retirement, Bob was Visiting Professor and Director of Mormon Studies at Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley. He is the co-founder and current Vice-President of the Bountiful Children’s Foundation, a humanitarian organization that addresses malnutrition among Latter-day Saint and other children in the developing world. Most recently he co-founded and is the president of FastForward for the Planet, a new non-profit initiative designed to unify the faiths of the world in addressing climate change and earth stewardship.

Bob has published widely on Mormon and Religious Studies. Together with a group of scholars, writers and others, he is working on a major publication on the intersection of the Church and the LGBTQ+ community titled “All Are Alike.”  His most recent publications are A New Witness to the World: Reading and Re-reading the Book of Mormon  (2020) and Why I Stay2: The Challenge of Discipleship for Contemporary Latter-day Saints (2021). He just finished co-editing (with Brent Rushforth) a collection of essays in honor of Eugene England. Currently he is working on a book, Realizing the Restoration.

Bob has served as a bishop, member of the Baltic States mission Presidency, high councilor and Institute Teacher, currently he and his wife, Gloria, are engaged in interfaith work in Marin County. He can be reached at bobreees2@gmail.com.

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An Evening with Allison Dayton: A new generation of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints bravely embraces their orientation and faith. How did we get here, and how do we help?
Jan
14
6:30 PM18:30

An Evening with Allison Dayton: A new generation of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints bravely embraces their orientation and faith. How did we get here, and how do we help?

Allison Dayton started the Lift and Love Foundation to support LGBTQ individuals and their families in the Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Allison lost her brother, who was gay, to suicide at the same time her 17-year-old son was coming out. Looking for resources to help her family, she couldn’t find anything that embraced her religious beliefs and the reality of her son’s identity. Lift and Love fills that much-needed space supporting thousands of individuals and family members as they navigate their unique journeys of protecting their identity or that of their precious children and integrating their new reality into their devotion to Jesus Christ. Allison is a frequent writer and speaker and was honored to speak at this year’s BYU Women’s Conference. In 2022 she moderated an LGBTQ Conversation Circle at the UN Women’s Conference. Allison and her husband, Kenn, live in the foothills of Salt Lake City, Utah. They have three grown children, a son-in-law and a granddaughter, Georgia, who rules their world.

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Love, Beauty, and the Power of Paradox: An Evening with Tyler David Lake
Nov
12
6:30 PM18:30

Love, Beauty, and the Power of Paradox: An Evening with Tyler David Lake

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Tyler is a gay man who was raised in a wonderful loving Mormon home. He served in the San Francisco Mission, worked extensively with the EFY program, and completed his undergraduate and graduate education at both BYU-Idaho and BYU-Provo. 

The challenge of realizing his queer identity while actively participating in the church led to some of the most painful experiences of his life. However, through these circumstances he experienced the spiritual and transformative power of paradox and was led to identify higher truths that brought him home again to the intelligences of love and beauty. He would love to share more about this journey with you.

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A Journey of Love with Katherine and Jeff Wise
Sep
24
6:30 PM18:30

A Journey of Love with Katherine and Jeff Wise

  • 98 Moulton Drive Atherton, CA, 94027 United States (map)
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It’s been more than 10 years since their son Talmage rocked their world when he came out as gay. Join us in person or online to hear the heartwarming story of their journey of love. 

Katherine and Jeff consider having a gay son to be one of the great blessings of their lives. They have worked to share this perspective as they have hosted the Hearth firesides in their home since 2015 in an effort to promote greater understanding, love, and inclusion for the LGBTQ community within and around the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. 

Jeff and Katherine have a wonderfully big family with 7 children and 20 grandchildren and are active members of the Church.

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LGBTQ Advocate Within the Church
Jul
16
6:30 PM18:30

LGBTQ Advocate Within the Church

  • 98 Moulton Drive Atherton, CA, 94027 United States (map)
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My name is Jerry Chong. I’m a gay active member in the West Stake in Calgary. I currently serve as the Just Serve Communication Specialist, Family History Consultant and Temple Ordinance Worker and Assistant Shift Coordinator at the Calgary Temple. I stepped into LGBTQ advocacy within the church as a result of the November 2015 policy change regarding children of LGBTQ parents and baptism and other rules affecting LGBTQ members.

I have reached out to stake presidents in Calgary as a resource for discussing and learning about lgbtq members of the church. Since 2015 I have met with eight of our nine stake presidencies in Calgary to talk about lgbtq inclusion and sensitivity training. I have led bishops training in three stakes and stake wide auxiliary leadership training in the Fish Creek Stake . It has been a positive experience for all who have been in these conversations.  I have felt the need for a visible role model in our gospel community and hope to be the role model I needed when I first joined the church in 2004.

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An Open Dialogue Surrounding Transphobia and Hate Speech with Tara Lipsyncki
Apr
16
11:00 AM11:00

An Open Dialogue Surrounding Transphobia and Hate Speech with Tara Lipsyncki


The Hearth is thrilled to announce our next guest speaker, Tara Lipsyncki!

Mark your calendars and join us as they present: An Open Dialogue Surrounding Transphobia and Hate Speech.

May 21st at 6:30pm pacific time. You won’t want to miss this!

A little bit about Tara:

Tara Lipsyncki (They/Them) is above all else, a proud transgender activist. With hundreds of published interviews and panel discussions on the topics of drag history, anti-trans legislation, First Amendment rights, body autonomy rights of minors and women, and more, Tara has been on the frontline of queer advocacy for over a decade. Since relocating back to Salt Lake City, UT from San Francisco, CA in 2019, Tara has worked tirelessly to bring diversity and inclusion to the forefront in the queer nightlife and entertainment communities. From being part of ARTEL talent in 2020, the first exclusively PoC and Trans owned and operated collective of queer artists in Utah history, to recently being the founding President of the non-profit The United Drag Alliance, an all Trans lead group bringing financial assistance to struggling members of the LGBTQIA+ community through the art of drag, in 2023. Coming from an extensive professional performance background, including skating professionally on Disney on Ice, Tara also has received professional recognitions including a Certificate of Recognition from the California State Senate for Drag Queens on Ice in 2018, Miss Golden Gate 2019, Miss Gay Pride 2021, and Miss Gay USofA Newcomer West Coast 2021. 

In Person at: 98 Moulton Dr, Atherton, CA 94027

Via Zoom: Info will be provided in a future email and to all who RSVP

Time: May 21, 2023 06:30 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)

RSVP  https://www.ldshearth.org/rsvp

If you plan to attend in-person but find yourself feeling unwell, then you can switch to attend virtually.

We're looking forward to seeing you all!

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Queer Joy and Strong Allies: An Evening with Ruth Campbell
Mar
19
6:30 PM18:30

Queer Joy and Strong Allies: An Evening with Ruth Campbell

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Ruth Campbell (she/her) is a queer woman who loves nature and people.  She dislikes PB&J sandwiches and hates transphobia. She loves street tacos so if you have recommendations please pass them on.  Ruth has been an active supporter of Hearth since its earliest days bringing some of its yummiest treats and greatest ideas.  Come hear her talk about her story and the stories we create and hold about others.

Come hear Ruth speak and celebrate The Hearth’s 8th Anniversary!

In Person: 98 Moulton Dr, Atherton, CA 94027

On Zoom: Look for the link in the newsletter or RSVP to get the link the day before the event

RSVP: https://www.ldshearth.org/rsvp


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The Hearth Presents: An Evening With Steve Young
Feb
26
6:30 PM18:30

The Hearth Presents: An Evening With Steve Young

Steve Young — Hall of Fame quarterback, successful investor, philanthropist, gospel doctrine teacher, author, and great friend of the Hearth. We are very pleased to welcome Steve on February 26th. Steve will be speaking on his recent book The Law of Love. 

“The law of love is loving as God loves, seeking another’s healing expecting nothing in return.”  

In this powerful book Steve talks about the law of love in different settings — in football, in business, in the church, and in relationships, but he explains where his heart was first opened up to it. “My exploration of the law of love really started with our LGBTQ+ siblings… For many years I have listened to people in tears tell Barb how much it meant to them that somebody saw them — really saw them and heard them. Her allyship made me think and caused me to really dive deep. My wife power washed the cultural barnacles off my boat…My experience with my LGBTQ+ siblings was the beginning of seeing others in a deeper way.”

“When we bring long-suffering, gentleness, meekness and love unfeigned to our relationships — that’s when the magic happens.”

Come learn more about this more expansive world view where “the magic happens” in this entertaining and thought provoking evening. We hope that you can be there to share it with us.



February 26, 2023 at 6:30 pm (PST)

The Annex

(In the back parking lot behind the LDS Chapel)
1105 Valparaiso Ave, Menlo Park, CA 94025

A Zoom link will follow in the reminder email
RSVP HERE: https://www.ldshearth.org/rsvp

If you plan to attend in-person but find yourself feeling unwell, then we ask that you switch to attend virtually. A link will be provided in our reminder email and newsletter.

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Living With A Brightness Of Hope: An Evening With Paul Nephi Price
Jan
22
6:30 PM18:30

Living With A Brightness Of Hope: An Evening With Paul Nephi Price

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We are delighted to hear from Paul Nephi Price, a married gay man who is an active member of the church.  We hope you can join us to hear Paul share his journey.

As an active member of the Berkeley 1st Ward, Paul Price uses his time in Sacrament Meetings to remember and acknowledge his profound love and gratitude for our Savior and to remember those in his life who accepted and loved him unreservedly as a gay Latter-day Saint, particularly his late parents.

Paul has been with his husband Bruce for 29 years, and a member of the local  Berkeley ward since 1998.  For several years after moving into the ward, his attendance was mostly in the shadows, enjoying the hymns and taking the Sacrament but not engaging in any way with his fellow ward members, in an attempt to preserve and protect his membership in the church.

In 2009, in order to heal the wounds left by Proposition 8 the previous year, President Dean Criddle of the Oakland Stake was inspired to reach out to those who had left or  become less active.  The Berkeley 1st Ward under Bishop Matt Marostica befriended Paul and with loving encouragement brought him into the Ward family as a fully active member.  For over 10 years Paul has been choosing and conducting the hymns for Sacrament Meeting, one way to contribute to this most important time of every week.

Paul was born and raised in the Bay Area, his baptism in Menlo Park in 1966 remains to this day the happiest moment of his life so far. Coming of age in the 1970's, Paul was aware and appreciative of the political leaders in nearby San Francisco who were working to end discrimination against gay people.  During the same era, he was hearing some beloved church leaders express condemnation against homosexuality.  Early on Paul learned how to respectfully disagree with his leaders on this issue, and continued to admire and to love them.

Paul attended BYU and in 1978 transferred to UC Berkeley, where he met his first partner, Steve, who sadly passed away from AIDS in 1992.  Paul's parents did everything possible to comfort Paul in this time of grief, as they had before with the loss to AIDS of several of his friends in the 1980's.  When Bruce and Paul became a couple in late 1993, the entire Price family was thrilled and supportive in every way.

For over 40 years Paul has worked in retail near Union Square, always enjoying the variety and beauty of San Francisco and its incredible diversity of people.

Paul’s testimony has always been intact throughout his life, but being able to openly attend church and be part of a wonderful ward family has brought him a perfect  brightness of hope, which will be with him for the rest of his life.

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Hearth Christmas Caroling and Chili
Dec
11
6:00 PM18:00

Hearth Christmas Caroling and Chili

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Hearth Christmas Caroling and Chili

December 11th at 6:00 pm (Note the earlier hour)

Sadly, there will be no Zoom link. In person only.

98 Moulton Dr., Atherton, CA

Come join us in friendship and love around the hearth wide and warm — to sing carols and celebrate the birth of our Savior. 

Sign up to bring some chili or a treat to share. Here

We look forward to being together for this special evening.

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Utah Hearth: An Evening with Ben Schilaty
Nov
6
6:00 PM18:00

Utah Hearth: An Evening with Ben Schilaty

Although we won’t be having Hearth in person this month, we are excited to send you this notice from our friends at Utah Hearth. They are having the wonderful Ben Schilaty speak on Sunday. It is always great to have an opportunity to hear from Ben.

*Please note that the time listed is Mountain Time. To attend in person or to get a zoom link register at liftandlove.org

Our next live event will be Chili and Caroling at the Hearth in early December. Details to follow soon.

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An Evening With Meghan Decker
Oct
23
6:30 PM18:30

An Evening With Meghan Decker

Please join us for a thought-provoking evening with our good friend Meghan Decker. She is a perceptive deep thinker who will discuss her journey of understanding her own sexuality and the insights she has gained talking with over 40 queer LDS women. Her vulnerability in her book Tender Leaves of Hope: Finding Belonging as LGBTQ Latter-day Saint Women really touched my heart, and I look forward to hearing more from her.

-Jeff Wise

About our speaker:

Meghan Decker is a respected writer, speaker and gay Latter-day Saint. She is co-author of Reaching for Hope: An LDS Perspective on Recovering from Depression, which has provided insight for thousands of readers who experience depression. Her new book, Tender Leaves of Hope: Finding Belonging as LGBTQ Latter-day Saint Women, shares her own experience and amplifies the voices of scores of LGBTQ women who are seeking to hear God in their lives. She has been a stake Seminary and Institute teacher and she continues to engage with her church as an active member. She and her husband David have five daughters and fifteen grandchildren, and they enjoy gathering to explore, eat, and trade book recommendations.

Please RSVP. We look forward to seeing you in person at 98 Moulton Dr. Atherton, CA or on Zoom. Link to be sent to those who RSVP.

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Christian Ward - An Unexpected Journey: Insights on navigating church doctrine and family relationships
Sep
18
9:30 PM21:30

Christian Ward - An Unexpected Journey: Insights on navigating church doctrine and family relationships

  • 98 Moulton Drive Atherton, CA, 94027 United States (map)
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Christian identifies as a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  Christian has lived in San Francisco for 10 years and works in finance and community development.  He enjoys being active, social, traveling, eating, and finding new adventures.  Christian grew up in Orem, Utah as a member of the church; served a mission in South Korea; attended Brigham Young University; lived in New York; then work brought him to San Francisco.  

Christian will share his unexpected journey and will share a few insights on navigating church doctrine and family relationships.  

Attend either in person at 98 Moulton Dr. Atherton, CA or stream it online. RSVP to let us know how you’ll be attending. Streaming link to come a day before the event.

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A Long Look Back — A gay couple’s journey from then to now
Jul
16
3:00 PM15:00

A Long Look Back — A gay couple’s journey from then to now

Guy grew up in Provo (with a few years in Bangkok), went to BYU for undergrad and grad school (like his BYU professor dad said, “Why would you consider anywhere but the Lord’s University?” …though full scholarships helped, lol), served a mission in Sweden, taught at the MTC, etc. and finally came out after graduation and a year of volunteer service for the church in rural Nigeria. Not wanting others to go through their years at BYU alone as he had, he started a gay mens’ support group upon graduating. He taught ESL and ran refugee programs in Utah many years until moving to SF (as, only half-jokingly, a “gay refugee from Utah”).

Trey grew up in Virginia and moved to Colorado as a teenager where he converted just shy of 18. He was supposed to attend William and Mary, but due to his family’s opposition to his choice of religion and as an act of rebellion he went to BYU instead. He went on a mission to Korea where he taught the deaf (Korean sign language had to be a marketable skill, right?). After a lot of struggle, he finally came out in 1990 when he started grad school (molecular biology) in Rochester, NY. 

Guy and Trey knew each other at BYU as both were involved in a small student peace and human rights group there, worked on symposia together, etc., had much respect for one another but weren’t close friends yet.  Neither was out to anyone nor even knew of ANY LGBTQ person all their years at BYU.  Seriously!

They met again when Trey was speaking at Sunstone  in SLC in 1996, while finishing his PhD in New York, and started dating long distance.  Still active in the church, yet out, Trey was called to a church court, both attended, and he was excommunicated after sharing that they were committed to a life together and raising a family (though he was called in at first because of his innocuous Sunstone talk). At first devastated after 20 year of dedicated sacrifice and service as a convert, having at one point been both disinherited and even denied the priesthood for his tiny bit of African ancestry (yep, really, blond and blue eyed Trey!), he was able to move forward from that experience and they’ve been together ever since, having adopted two beautiful daughters and created a rich and full life together, marveling at times at the progress made yet the challenges that still lie ahead. 

They love, deeply respect ans appreciate the LGBTQ+ LDS/Mormon community and have agreed to share their experience and insights.


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Happy Pride
Jun
16
to Jun 30

Happy Pride

Hello Everyone,

For June we are not hosting a Hearth event, but we’d like to encourage you to take the Pride Month of June as an opportunity to celebrate and experience some LGBTQIA+ joy.

Pride originally started as the Stonewall Uprising where gay people stood up for LGBTQIA+ rights and against police brutality. This month consider how you can step up to be an advocate or ally for the LGBTQIA+ community.

Some possible actions:

Prepare for this Sunday to make positive changes in your ward or congregation. Plan for what you might say during a Sunday lesson or discussion if there are homophobic or transphobic comments. Think about what you can do to make your ward more inclusive and welcoming to all of our Heavenly Parents’ children.

Talk to your friends and family about your thoughts/feelings about church and LGBTQIA+ inclusivity. It's possible that you don't realize how people are wrestling with this - and normalizing discussion topic is always helpful. 

Affirmation SF is planning and hosting a dance and other pride activities. Reach out to Victoria Hutchings to help with planning, set up or clean up.

Email: Victoria.l.hutchings@gmail.com to get the details so you can attend.

Watch some positive LGBTQIA+ inspired media.  Some ideas here:

  • https://www.parentmap.com/article/family-movies-pride-lgbtq 

Buy your pride swag or other art from an LGBTQIA+ artist. Lots of options on Etsy or ask a friend of someone they love.  

San Francisco has many pride celebrations. Join one of them such as the Trans March, Dyke March or Pride Parade:

  • https://www.mercurynews.com/2022/06/01/50-ways-to-celebrate-pride-in-the-bay-area/amp/

  • https://datebook.sfchronicle.com/guide/lgbtq-pride-how-s-f-bay-area-arts-organizations-plan-to-celebrate-in-2022/amp

Donate to a cause that promotes LGBTQIA+ rights. There are many but if you are looking for some: 

  • The Trevor Project

  • The Human Rights Champaign

  • Genderspectrum here locally

  • Encircle in Utah

Normalize naming pronouns: use pronouns when you introduce yourself and include them on any email signatures and virtual platforms with your name. Ask others for their pronouns when meeting them.

Reach out to your elected representatives and encourage them to support any bills to protect Trans rights. Or sign up for Trans rights list-serve so you are alerted for actions. 

Ask your Relief Society or Elders Quorum president or bishop to do a Sunday lesson on LGBTQIA+ awareness and inclusion. You can find some good resources at Emmaus LGBTQ Ministry and Listen, Learn and Love.

Plan on coming to Hearth in July! We’d love to see you.

Happy Pride

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David Bingham: Love is the Answer to Just About Everything
May
22
6:30 PM18:30

David Bingham: Love is the Answer to Just About Everything

David Bingham is a gay member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. He’s a Creative Director of brand design. He loves to explore, create, be active outdoors, and enjoys a good innuendo. David was raised in the church but he left when he came out at age 19. He returned to, or came into, the church 36 years later. 

David will share the unexpected path of his journey and what he has learned along the way — especially that love is the answer to just about everything.

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Sadi Rogers: Diversity is Divine
Apr
10
6:30 PM18:30

Sadi Rogers: Diversity is Divine

Sadi grew up in Arizona as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints surrounded by a big family. She got married at 19 to her then husband and had 3 kids. She got her bachelor’s degree in special education and is often found singing country music while making dinner. After 11 years of marriage and being a stay-at-home mom, she got divorced and has since remarried a wonderful woman, Quinn, and has become an EMT. Sadi has had unique experiences that have led her to trust God and know that diversity is divine.

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Peculiar invites The Hearth to An Evening With Tom Christofferson
Mar
13
6:00 PM18:00

Peculiar invites The Hearth to An Evening With Tom Christofferson

For our March meeting we are excited to tell you that The Hearth has been invited to join in with our friends at Peculiar for a Zoom presentation from Tom Christofferson speaking on the theme of Forgiveness.

When: March 13 at 6:00pm PDT.  (Please note the time adjustment from the 7 PM Mountain time to the 6 PM Pacific Time)

Where: There are two options:
1. You’re welcome to come to the Wise’s home to watch the Zoom broadcast with us and then discuss it over delicious treats.  The address is 98 Moulton Dr., Atherton.
2. Join from wherever you are using the Zoom link included in the most recent newsletter

*For this particular meeting please RSVP only if you are coming to watch at the Wise's house. 

Tom Christofferson is a good friend and one of our favorite people.  His ability to connect with people with great warmth, love and empathy is combined with a sharp insight and deep thought about things that are really important. He is an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and is the author of "That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon's Perspective on Faith and Family" and "A Better Heart: The Impact of Christ's Pure Love", both published by Deseret Book.

Tom has enjoyed a career in institutional asset management and asset servicing with global banks, being based in Europe and the United States.  He has served on numerous corporate and non-profit boards with organizations that assist homeless families, the long-term unemployed to re-enter the workforce and that provide resources to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer people.

Peculiar was co-founded by our friend George Deussen and is an organization dedicated to "inspire, educate and empower parents and families from faith based communities to unconditionally love and embrace their LGBTQ+  children".   You can learn more about Peculiar and the great work they do at ThePeculiar.org

We are looking forward to spending this evening with these special people.
The Zoom link will be included in the monthly newsletter.

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 Wishing you all a very happy new year!
Feb
6
6:30 PM18:30

Wishing you all a very happy new year!

Date Changed to February 6th @ 6:30pm Pacific Time

Dear Hearth Community,

March 9, 2015, we held the first of what came to be known as Hearth firesides. Lots of people squeezed into our home that night, filling it with love and the spirit. It was a powerful evening that touched many hearts. Church leaders were sitting next to people who hadn’t been inside the church for years. We learned from one another and felt of each other’s spirit and love.

It’s now been almost 7 years since we pitched our tent at the intersection of LGBTQ and LDS and declared that we would reach out with a firm loving embrace — and hold onto both — celebrating and affirming both communities.

These (mostly) monthly firesides have blessed and enriched our lives beyond measure. They’ve blessed the lives of so many people who have come into our home or more recently into our Zoom space. Sometimes life (and Covid) has interfered with the regular rhythm of our gathering. You are in our hearts and our souls, but when we don’t gather, we feel the loss and miss your presence.

We’ve missed having Hearth in December and we’ll miss January, but we are looking forward to gathering once again on February 6, 2022.

All of us involved with Hearth wish you and yours a New Year filled with love and warmth.

“Here the hearth is wide and warm.”

With Love,

Jeff Wise

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Brooke Anderson, Through Another Lens: Learning to Shift our Perspective
Feb
6
6:30 PM18:30

Brooke Anderson, Through Another Lens: Learning to Shift our Perspective

Our Speaker will be Brooke Anderson:

Brooke is a lesbian, author, and Latter-day Saint. She served a mission in Tucson, Arizona, and is currently attending Brigham Young University for her masters in Linguistics. Her personal journey in the LGBTQ+ community started later in life and includes a brief marriage to a man and subsequent annulment. She recently authored a book "Through My Lens: A Lesbian Latter-day Saint Perspective" as a way to share her story and is grateful for the support she has received in response to her openness. She enjoys rock-climbing, writing, and playing with her pet rat, Cali. Brooke will be speaking on shifting perspectives.

As of now this Hearth event will happen on Zoom and a link will be provided in the reminder newsletter as well as to those who RSVP. If we do decide to have an in-person option, we will update that here as well as let you know in the reminder newsletter.

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Hearth Thanksgiving: An Evening of Gratitude
Nov
21
6:30 PM18:30

Hearth Thanksgiving: An Evening of Gratitude

Join us as we gather around the Hearth either in-person or via Zoom for an evening of expressing gratitude. Come spend an evening together sharing our feelings about those things we are grateful for. It has been a difficult time since we were last able to gather in-person, but it has also been a time of great blessings. Let’s spend an evening focused on the blessings we have received, whatever they may be.

In person at 98 Moulton Dr., Atherton, CA 94027 and on Zoom with a link to be provided later.

COVID — We will be following all state and county directives requiring that masks be worn indoors. Those who are unvaccinated are encouraged to participate via Zoom.


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Endure to the End: LGBTQ Spiritual Resilience
Oct
17
6:30 PM18:30

Endure to the End: LGBTQ Spiritual Resilience

We are pleased to introduce our next guest speaker - John Gustav-Wrathall

John Gustav-Wrathall is a former president and executive director of Affirmation: LGBTQ Mormons, Family and Friends, and is founder and cochair of Emmaus LGBTQ Ministry, whose mission is to foster church-based ministering to and with LGBTQ individuals and their families in and adjacent to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He is also the author of numerous articles and books on the subject of LGBTQ individuals in organized religion. Though excommunicated, he retains a testimony of the Church and of the Gospel, is active in his south Minneapolis ward of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and remains happily married to his husband of 30 years.

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Queer Theology with Blaire Ostler
Sep
19
6:30 PM18:30

Queer Theology with Blaire Ostler

  • Zoom Event (a link will be sent the day before the event to those who RSVP) (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

Blaire Ostler is a philosopher specialized in queer studies, and is a leading voice at the intersection of queer, Mormon, and transhumanist thought. She is the author of “Queer Mormon Theology: An Introduction.” She is also a board member and podcaster at Sunstone, and former CEO and board member at the Mormon Transhumanist Association.

"Queer Mormon Theology: An Introduction."


Blaire is also an artist and poet, and spends her spare time hiking, painting, writing, and bickering with her friends about almost any topic imaginable. Blaire lives in Utah with her husband and their three children.

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Asexuality and Me: An Evening with Eve Class
Jun
20
6:30 PM18:30

Asexuality and Me: An Evening with Eve Class

  • Zoom (link will be sent closer to the event date) (map)
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Eve Class is a student at Utah Valley University. She is majoring in Deaf Studies, with an emphasis in interpreting. Eve loves any and all things related to the arts. She draws, she sings, she acts, she writes. If there’s a creative pursuit she can get her hands on, she probably will. Eve also loves video games and has a particular fondness for Fire Emblem, Legend of Zelda, and Hollow Knight. Eve adores animals and is the proud parent of a 3 year old calico cat named Kiki.

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Elena Joy Thurston
May
16
6:30 PM18:30

Elena Joy Thurston

  • Zoom - RSVP to recieve the link. Link will be sent on May 15th (map)
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Elena Joy Thurston is an inspirational LGBTQ speaker, trainer, and founder of the nonprofit Pride and Joy Foundation - which is dedicated to reducing the rate of suicide and homelessness in the LGBTQ community. A Mormon mom of four who lost her marriage, her church, and her community when she came out as a lesbian, Elena’s viral TEDx talk on surviving conversion therapy has been viewed 40,000+ times and landed her media and speaking opportunities with ABC, CBS, FOX, Boston’s First Event, and Seacoast Wellness Series.  Elena Joy recently joined the publishing world with Pride and Joy Publishing, the only LGBTQ+ publisher of solely LGBTQ+ empowerment and business books.

www.prideandjoyfoundation.com

LGBTQ+ Family and Influencer Summit

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bj Nelson: My journey to Authenticity
Apr
18
6:30 PM18:30

bj Nelson: My journey to Authenticity

  • On Zoom - a link will be emailed a few days before the event (map)
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bj Nelson:

My journey to Authenticity

bj Nelson was raised in Orem Utah in the 50’s and 60’s. Graduated from Orem High in 1972. Attended BYU. Served an LDS mission to Sydney Australia. Married her best friend in the Manti Temple. They are the parents of four children and grandparents to fourteen. bj is an active member of her ward, has served in most capacities within her ward and in her role as a man.

bj finally escaped a very dark closet at the age of 62. She will share some of the events that helped to shape and preserve her life. She’ll also share the story of her coming out and the journey to living an authentic and wonderful life.

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Matthew Gong: Reclaiming Home Through Storytelling
Mar
21
6:30 PM18:30

Matthew Gong: Reclaiming Home Through Storytelling

  • Zoom - a link will be emailed a few days before the event (map)
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Matthew Gong grew up in northern Virginia until he moved with his family to Provo. He came out at the end of his sophomore year at college. He served a Mandarin-speaking mission in the England London South Mission before returning to BYU. At BYU, he co-founded the Spoken Word Storytelling Collective. After meandering through various programs, he ultimately graduated with a degree in Mathematics.

Matt is an artist, free-lance consultant, and writer. With a passion for blending technology and art, he sculpts in origami and other physical media and builds experiential digital art in virtual reality. He currently works making mixed reality educational tools. When he has free time he writes about his experiences as a queer man in the LGBTQ Mormon diaspora.

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Michael Secrist: "If You Don’t Love Like Some People Do"
Feb
21
6:30 PM18:30

Michael Secrist: "If You Don’t Love Like Some People Do"

  • Zoom (an email with a link will be sent out the day before and again the day of the event) (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS

This month we welcome guest speaker, Michael Secrist, to The Hearth

Michael Secrist identifies as a gay LDS man and is an advocate and mentor for LGBTQ and questioning LDS youth. For the last two years, he has been involved in running LGBTQ Family Home Evening and Ally Night as a part of his stake calling and he has enjoyed every minute of it. He is passionate about helping all young people grow up healthy and live their best lives, whether in or out of the church.

Michael currently resides in Long Beach, California where he is a practicing interventional radiologist.

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